Monday, November 16, 2009

celebrate good times, come on!

Hello all~

I had quite an eventful weekend. The family celebrated Kak Hani's belated birthday with dinner on Saturday at Madam Kwan's. It was a great night because of my awesome family... but the food was a letdown. It wasn't that bad, it's just... average.

On Sunday afternoon we went to Dina's kindergarten's year-end party/concert. She was absolutely adorable! She is also the top of her class among five-year olds, so we we're beaming! Like seriously beaming! Its amazing how the kindergarten teachers get the kids to behave during the concert... But of course, all hell broke loose when the concert ended and the buffet began.

And later that night a birthday dinner for my babe's brother, Fen (who shares Hani's birthdate!). Dinner was held at The Ship... Awesome sirloin steak! I was too full for dessert, but still managed to finish up Alia's vanilla ice-cream haha.

I thought it was a great weekend of celebration. The celebration of life, its progresses, and how we grow older (but not necessarily wiser!).

Talking about birthdays; Insya Allah if all goes well, today will mark the arrival of a very adorable and loved baby boy into the world! Congratulations in advance to Bad and Ikin! I pray for a safe labor and delivery for both mama and baby, Amin! Can't wait to see the three of you soon :)

And a moment of reflection:
Kak Hani said something to me and Kak Azfa in the car on our way back home from Dina's concert; that birthdays should be celebrated by celebrating the mothers that gave birth to us. I was struck by how obvious and simple that notion is, but somehow most of us -including me - fail to notice that. We shouldn't be asking our moms for birthday presents; we should be giving them flowers, chocolates, that bottle of perfume she's been eyeing, etc. Or visit her grave if she has passed on.

I'm not saying that we should do without partying for our birthdays from this moment onwards, but that we should include our mothers, one way or another, in it.

:)

6 comments:

Chase said...

really jealous reading your updates on your food escapades!!! hahaha...mum to be soon :D

Elmira said...

well i'm jealous of that RM1k u pocketed! that should be able to buy you a lot of good food! ;)

Chase said...

1k finito by the weekend.

hahahaha

Lyana H. said...

One of my friend said the same thing as kak Hani. Well for me, ur b'day could also be your new year ;)

Soulie said...

I like the part where we should include mothers on our birthday! That is so true :)

Elmira said...

lyana: well, i think that's one of the ideas of birthdays... :)

soul: kan kan? i mean, its soo obvious right? diorang yang penat carry kita for 9 months, and then diorang yang menahan sakit bila nak give birth... mother's day is just not sufficient! hehe.